Posts Tagged ‘ Expectations ’

Just Be True

Just be true to yourself and to others, and don’t get involved profoundly in the love of other until you’re sure that the other person loves you unconditionally; or a better way to put it would be to make sure the other person is digging along with you, not watching you dig. Some of us end up hurting ourselves when we start to love someone with great depth with lots of expectations and later realizing other person is not on the same page. Understanding is important with fewer expectations.


Quote - True to Yourself

Watch Me Flying High Above The Cliffs

Watch me flying high above the cliffs and live your life with a smile on your face.

Well again a few words I would like to share with all of you and this time it’s on suffering, the mental suffering. It’s just what I think about mental suffering and personally this post is not intended for anyone in any sense as these are just views, nothing more than that. If you want to read it then go ahead and in any case if you wish then you can add your comments or thoughts after reading this post.

Memories are wonderful if we don’t get stuck in the past. Dreams are always good if we don’t get trapped up in the web of dream world. Expectations makes us feel lighter if we don’t rely much on them. Without memories, without dreams and without expectations, we will be as good as dead. If we get stuck in the past with memories, if we get trapped in the dream world, if we mostly reply on expectations then there is always a very strong chance that we’ll encounter with suffering. Having desires and dreams are always good, it makes us feel alive, it makes us excited about the life, it makes us doing something to fulfill them but making a hills of desires and dreams of which we don’t even have any idea or we don’t even know where and how to climb up and how to get up on it, can lead to suffering. Relying on exceptions at most of time is like becoming a slave of hopes and in other way it can lead to suffering. Getting stuck in the past with memories will never let you to live your present. Life is tough and it is supposed to be like that as most of the time easy and simple things are ignored or low valued by the world.

Now, if someone is suffering what does that mean? It means something has went wrong with that person, with its past, desires, dreams or expectations. No one suffers by a chance, there is always something behind it. We are humans, things can go wrong, things can get messed up and sometimes life may become unbearable and directionless. If you ever reach at this point in your life, just sit at a place where you feel comfortable and just try to enlighten yourself with your own consciousness. You have brain in your head and there is always something to learn from everything you are facing and I believe there is a lot a person can learn when s/he suffers, learn from it then overcome it. You just have to catch up the wisdom which is there in the suffering and then move away from it with a better person than you used to be in the past, the things you learn while you suffer, keep them in your mind and heart; that wisdom will be your best guide through out the life. Sometimes, it’s the suffering which gives a birth to something beautiful and powerful things, we just have to realize that we are the owner of our life, we are the fire which can blow up the hurdles, we have the power to shout out loud; so stand up against the mirror and just say it to yourself – watch me soaring and watch me flying high above the cliffs.