Posts Tagged ‘ Understanding ’

Let there be Love

What it means to forgive, how to handle it to turn things and ourselves better? Don’t you think that it’s of great importance in our lives to understand this every basic thing? Don’t you think it has very great impact on our lives and surroundings too?

Here, I’m just sharing my perception on the subject:

Let’s part it into two categories, that is, Internal and External Forgiveness, and hence, I would say there is an obvious difference between both, internal and external forgiveness. You may forgive a person internally so the pain or the consequences of someone’s wrong doing does not affect you and your energy. However, that does not mean you should necessarily forgive someone externally, it is not mandatory to forgive someone externally. Forgiveness, if that really exists, is for those only who deserve it. So I think there is always need to scrutinize that, are they really worthy of you imparting your forgiveness? Because, chances are if you freely forgive them without any consequence then sometimes it could mean you are only encouraging their actions. Your pain is real, it is not to be messed with, and yes, of course, nobody is perfect but being understanding is what is important at times, and always. Let’s be respectful to each other, decisions are not supposed to be taken in fury of emotions. Nobody feels good when they are stepped on like a doormat, nobody feels good when they are judged by someone who lacks understanding, by someone who is egoistical, narcissist and ignorant. You are a living, breathing and loving creature, that just happens to have a body. If you feel that someone has proved themselves, if they proved themselves worthy of your external forgiveness, well then that’s good, let them into your life. Use your best judgement and be kind, it takes hell lot of investment of time to build up trust and relations, and to knock it down no efforts required.

Love and Peace ~ Vikas Sharma

Random Thought

It’s good to take the difference of opinions into account and it must be encouraged as it could lead to better answers, understanding and resolution on the matter. But if the difference of opinions on a subject argued repeatedly and excessively without an end with less interest in listening and more in replying back then the discussion on the subject becomes irrelevant, listening is half understanding.

Have a good day/night ~ Vikas

Just Be True

Just be true to yourself and to others, and don’t get involved profoundly in the love of other until you’re sure that the other person loves you unconditionally; or a better way to put it would be to make sure the other person is digging along with you, not watching you dig. Some of us end up hurting ourselves when we start to love someone with great depth with lots of expectations and later realizing other person is not on the same page. Understanding is important with fewer expectations.

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Love #1

Love is an unconditional dedication of acceptance and understanding; it’s your greatest strength in times of darkness. The problems we most commonly face lie in the crevices of our perception. We only deserve the love that we give but when it is taken as we deserve that love which we give then it becomes a source of disillusionment; love has no expectation, it has no winners, only the saviors.

Do not mistake your obsessions with love; do not blame your insecurities and high hopes on others. The truth is, in this day and age most people will spend most of their lives not understanding love.

Have a Good Time ~ Vikas Sharma

Illusion Deception Enlighten

Believing blindly in something that is not true can degrade our consciousness which can drives us to a point where all the differences between illusion and possible reality fades away. Deception has been used by some to get what they want, it blinds consciousness and make the psyche paralyzed enough to not to see beyond the deceptive horizon. Through any mean or in any possible way, the web of deceit can seize our psyche and can blind us to the truth; it is intended to demolish our power of thinking and our ability of understanding. It then constructs wall all-around of us to limit us to the world of nothing but just illusions.

Awareness, knowledge and wisdom are the tools which can enlighten our psyche to keep us out of the web of deceit by strengthening our power of thinking and by raising our ability of understanding the things, it indeed open our minds and raise our consciousness. It is awareness, knowledge and wisdom which can keep the illusions at bay.  With an open mind, we should load ourselves with as much of awareness, knowledge and wisdom as we can because we reflect what there is inside us. An enlighten mind reflects enlightenment whereas a mind ingrained with illusive ideology reflects the same, the illusions. So we should reflect the same energy which we wish ourselves to be surrounded by and for those who thinks it’s cool to not give a damn to anything, let me tell you something to smash your fallacy, it’s not at all cool to not give a damn to the things which matters, it’s just your illusion.

Much love ~ Vikas Sharma

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Knowledge and Wisdom

Essentially there are two kinds of knowing, that is the experience and the understanding, and then everything comes afterwards. Without experience which can be direct or indirect and without capability of understanding, there is nothing to know. Knowledge and wisdom, both comes forth from experience and understanding. Moreover, sometimes it’s wisdom which takes a bit more, that is the practice of experience. Sometimes wisdom is gained through the practice of experience, not just merely by experience and understanding.

Have a good day/night friends ~ Vikas Sharma